Reminiscing without Nostalgia

As I think about my soon-to-be life as a college student with a 24/7 roommate, a work week with about half the hours I work now, and newfound independence, I remember my past and everything in my life which made me who I am today; however, I do not dread the future, nor do I feel nostalgic when thinking of leaving my current life.

From my beginning years in elementary school (first grade to be exact), I was what some to consider a "Potterhead." Yes, I was addicted to Harry Potter. When I was young, I HAD to see each Harry Potter film during opening weekend. As I got older, it was prevalent I occupied a seat in one of the first theaters showing the newest Harry Potter movie. I owned the trading cards, all of the books and movies, and I have even read the books multiple times; I'm actually currently rereading Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. 

Although some will find this strange, odd, or maybe even a little insane, I hope some of you find comfort in what I have to say. Since I would spend hours of my childhood huddled over, with my nose in Harry Potter books, my morals I have today developed from this series. I now believe friendships should be treasured, and all others should not be fully trusted. No matter your past, who tries to influence you, or your current situation, if you put forth a suitable work ethic and surround yourself with those who help build you, then you can achieve greatness. Those who use knowledge, wit, and bravery will obtain greatness in place of those with sly charm and a deceiving character. 

Through this series, above all else, I've learned respect. By respecting another, and treating another as an equal, an ally can form and an undesirable situation becomes easier to tolerate. 

After reading each book, I gained a new perspective on life and my love for family and friendships grew. I tried to live day-by-day as my favorite characters did, and it kept me out of trouble. I chose to remain close with my childhood friends rather than get sucked into peer pressure with those who weren't familiar. I knew where my values lied, and I still do.

All-in-all, we yearn to become our childhood idols - whether we realize it or not. When Britney Spears took over the country, didn't we all own her Barbie doll and know "Baby, One More Time" word-for-word? When N-Sync and Backstreet Boys battled for the spotlight, didn't our cliques depend on which band we liked? I will admit, I loved Justin Timberlake (I still do. What girl doesn't?) and I loved Britney Spears. When American Idol dominated our homes two nights each week, my fangirling for Kelly Clarkson formed, and to this day I still adore her. Hey, I'm even going to her upcoming concert. 

What I'm trying to say is, Who and what we loved as children helped us learn right from wrong, and helped us establish the morals we have today. Next time you clean out your closet, take a look down Memory Lane. Days felt like weeks and decisions were easy. Next to the old clothes and pointless holiday gifts, do you find pieces of your preteen self hidden somewhere?